Why you must focus to achieve success!

The ability to stay focused and control your mind from wandering regularly throughout the day can be both incredibly frustrating and exhausting if you are working on specific activities in pursuit of your goals. Whilst there certainly appears to be evidence to support ‘deliberate’ day dreaming that can in fact benefit you from embracing your creative part of the brain in a variety of different ways. The simple need to concentrate without distraction can be challenging when deadlines are fast approaching. It’s the ability to assume control of your mind, unhook the current thought and reset your focus on the task in hand. This takes practice, like and habit, but the benefits are significant as you will become a productive machine!

There are a number of different techniques to consider to train your mind to become better at focusing on your specific priorities and the benefits are certainly there to be seen. There is no doubt that by channeling your energies into a single activity will ensure you are consistent and the overall quality of your efforts will increase (check out the previous post on ‘The One Thing’). You will also find that you feel more relaxed and less overwhelmed as your mind isn’t trying to juggle a handful of different things at once – all you have to deal with is one task at a time. Additionally your specific objective will be achieved rather than a sub optimal version of the perceived outcome. Finally you will simply get more done in a shorter time period, rather than endlessly distracted and losing energy as your mind tries to process different requests, thoughts and activities.

The working day is essentially a series of individual blocks that you should focus all energies on for a specific period of time, then rest and go again – one analogy is like a boxer and having a series of rounds to fight in – 3 mins of focus, strategic effort with a single clear goal in mind, then rest, recover then go again…with the ability to last 10 – 12 rounds. We will explore the structure of the day in much greater detail in future posts but for now you should ensure your focus is maintained for the current window or round. To achieve your goals, you need a plan and the focus to deliver on the specific parts of the plan. To really achieve success you must have your primary goals in mind before you go to bed and when you wake in the morning – writing them down, reading and repeating them to yourself, front and centre – this creates the unwavering purpose you need to have any chance of being successful. Your goals will evolve over time, new ones replacing the old but you need to ensure you look ahead rather than backwards – your attention focused on what’s ahead of you to be achieved.

Below are a list of suggested techniques to think about that will help you focus:

  • – Our willpower and decision making lose energy throughout the day therefore it can be valuable to work on the more creative or activities that require concentration first whilst our minds are fresh, focusing on the hard tasks up front in those 2 or 3 hours in the morning, the more mundane, repetitive, mindless tasks can be done later in the day – it’s all about planning out your day effectively to optimise your energies – understanding when you are at your best should align with when you focus on different types of activities.
  • Practice, Practice, Practice – every time you find your mind getting distracted, recognise it and reset your attention on the task in hand – no matter how insignificant or small, keep working on this as you will get better at it and eventually it will become natural and you’ll pick up on when you day dream far faster – like anything its a habit than can be learned and improved upon.
  • During your breaks use this time to day dream and encourage your mind to wander – actively embrace this time and see where things go – essentially allowing your mind to problem-solve and relax – there are benefits to improving your focus by simply giving your mind a break from the intensity and deliberate control of staying in the moment.
  • Reinforce your commitment by keeping your promises (no matter how big or small) – follow through on commitments you’ve made ensures you’ll see things through till the end – this develops a habit of consistency and there are parallels to the way your mind will approach focus and self control.
  • Treat or reward yourself after completing a task with supreme focus. The promise of some kind of reward can drive you to see through a specific task. Remember these blocks or rounds should be small and therefore it won’t be that long until your first break – setting an initial reward as you start practicing can get you over the first few hours and gradually the rewards can become less frequent but perhaps larger as you complete more significant goals.
  • Take time to completely switch off – no work, no phones, time with the family, completely distract yourself with enjoyable activities, lose yourself in a different part of your life to re-energise yourself before coming back to your goals – avoiding burn out is key to relentlessly drive forward – it’s all in the planning but taking time away will enable you to refocus and push on.
  • Sleep at least 7 hours per day – don’t take this lightly – yes you may think you can work through the night (sometimes required) or you can live on 5 hours per day but over time I believe this catches up with you – you’ll be fresh and you’ll mind will be clear – critical in those first few hours of each day. Find ways to optimise your sleep so you sleep deeply and wake full of energy – it’s all about how effective you truly are whilst working rather than simply turning up – we want to maximise each hour and squeeze every last ounce of value from our working day if we want to achieve great things – so fresh, focused and energised requires quality sleep.

Why affirmations work!

As we consider how to optimise our focus, execute our goals and take control of the working day there are many small techniques and tools that can be easily deployed to assist in setting us up for rip roaring success – positive affirmations happen to be one of those elements.

They are clear specific statements that when used repeatedly help you change your focus and mindset in an extremely positive way.  They can be thought of as an injection of motivation into the mind, focused thought leading to taking massive action.

It’s important to ensure that the statements used are in the present, powerfully constructed to be clear on intent even if the outcome or goal is still yet to achieved.
For example ‘I am financially independent’ or ‘I am passionate about my job’ or ‘I am respected by my peer group’.

The key is that you consider first what you want to achieve and then follow this by reminding and repeating to yourself the outcome that you desire. By repeating over and over, both by writing these down, reflecting on them daily and by saying them to yourself you will let your subconscious go to work to help you achieve them whilst constantly reminding you to take positives steps aligned with your goals.

I like the phrase ‘you are what you eat’ however this could be reworded as ‘you are what you repeat‘, at least it will ensure you stay in a positive mental state and drive you forward.

Now of course your affirmations have to be achievable and realistic much like your goals but go big – don’t make them easy – dream hard and push yourself, you want to be the best you can be? so stretch yourself – you are in control of your thoughts and attitude so why not make that visualisation as big and as bright as possible and then keep it front of mind at all times.

Your brain is incredible and it deals with everything in the moment.  When you think of something your brain gets to work to consider what appropriate action will follow.  Therefore it’s reasonable to assume that feeding it positive statements will result in meaningful actions.  If you don’t take control your brain will look for other influences to make sense of the immediate environment and then lead you down a different path, more often not the one aligned to your goals.

Like anything practice makes perfect – and repetition is the key to success with affirmations. Try writing down four or five affirmations and saying them to yourself when you first wake up and regularly during the day – success doesn’t happen overnight (I liked a quote I saw yesterday that said ‘it’s amazing how many late nights it takes to be an overnight success’!  I can’t remember who to attribute this to but it’s certainly true).

Build into your day a sprinkling of positive affirmations and repeatedly say them to yourself and let the magic of your mind assist you in achieving them.